Religious Sex
Chapter 18
What Do You Call A Female Stud?
by
Sabrina Aset
High Priestess of the Church of The Most High Goddess
I am often asked whether the religion of The Goddess
practices the same rituals as the Hindu and Buddhist Tantric
sects. These religions do involve sex in their rituals, but
their theology is totally different from the Church of the
Most High Goddess of which I am the High Priestess. Although
Tantrism has no relation to my religion, I get so many
inquiries as to whether or not we are Tantric that it seems
necessary to say, we are not. Neither are we Witches nor
Satanic. My religion and tantrism both teach that the man
should develop a firm, hard cock, but the Tantrics believe
that the man must never ejaculate in their rituals, whereas
filling my cunt with cum is required in the religion of The
Goddess.
Because of our legal problems, many people have
suggested that I research Hindu eroticism of 1000 years ago
with the implication that it will substantiate my sexual
religion. Hinduism predates Christianity at the most by 1900
to 2500 years. Its earliest writings date to only 1000 B.C.
though there are some ancient writings found in the Indus
Valley which may date to as early as 3000 B.C., but the
language in which they are written is unknown and translation
is impossible. Even if they are assumed to be religious in
nature, they are not Hindu text. Buddhism, which grew out of
Hinduism, predates Christianity by only about 500 years. It
is said that Buddha studied the Hindu religion, but rejected
it to form his own religion. What is more correct, is that
Buddha rejected many of the principles of Hinduism while
keeping many others.
Technically, there is no religion called Hinduism and
there is no Indian equivalent for the word. Hindu is the
common western term used to lump many eastern religious sects
and cults into a single grouping. However most Indians accept
Hindu as a common word of reference to their religious
practices. One of the reasons for the success of Hinduism has
been its ability to assimilate all other religions into its
teachings. Thus, in Hinduism we find gods and goddesses from
a variety of ancient religions as well as the christian
saints and the teachings of Christianity, Islam and Tantrics.
Basically Hindus and Buddhists have the same beliefs in
a neuter being as the Absolute Spirit and in the
transmigration of the soul. That is, the belief that the soul
passes from body to body until it becomes perfected enough to
unite with the Absolute Spirit. The Hindu religions believe
in gods and goddesses as spirit beings with only one god -
the Absolute Spirit. But Christians who believe in three
gods, like to think of the Hindus as being pagans and
heathens who believe in more than one god.
Tantrism is mainly practiced in India and Tibet. Though
an early form of what would later become Tantrism once
existed in China, it was largely stamped out by Confucian
patriarchs. The Chinese tell great tales of the ability of
those who used the same techniques employed by tantrics to
maintain erections for hours. To quote from the book The Ying
Yang, by Humana, speaking of busy men in China who spent many
hours with concubines, "There are many instances in both
novels and court records, of papers being signed without the
male member being withdrawn and of urgent matters being
discussed with callers to the accompaniment of occasional
movements to ensure that the erection was not lost."
How would you like to attend that kind of executive
meeting? The problem is, as a woman, I don't find having a
hard cock in my cunt for hours with little or no movement to
be much of a turn on. But then tantrism is a male technique.
Women don't need to keep up an erection.
The Japanese had a group called Shingon which was
similar to Tantrism but it is no longer known to be practiced
in Japan.
In the Tantric religions, the ultimate goal is to unite
with the Absolute Spirit and be absorbed into it in perfect
peace forever - eternally. Sounds like a lot of nothing going
on for all eternity, but that is their concept of peace. I
prefer peace and piece.
The early prominent Hindu and Buddhist religions were
ascetic. Sex was not a part of their rituals. In fact one of
the four Noble Truths of Buddha was that suffering was caused
by the desire for pleasure. Only by eliminating the desire
for the five pleasure could one gain perfect peace and
freedom. Now be sure you remember that Buddha said that. I
didn't.
Tantrism got its name from written scriptures called
Tantras, which date to around 200 to 250 A.D. That is at
least 1200 years after the earliest Hindu writings. In
perspective, Tantrism is a fairly recent arrival which put a
hard cock where abstinence was the accepted way. Tantrism did
not become a part of Hinduism until very late in history,
possible the 6th century A.D. at the earliest. It is said to
have been introduced into India by women of a secret sect
called Vratyas. Where these women originally came from is not
known. They may have been priestesses of The Goddess from
another area as there are basic similarities in the concept
that the woman has more spiritual power than the man.
Tantrism teaches that the Hindu Absolute Spirit has two
aspects, Shiva, male and Shakti, female. Shiva represents
passivity, Shakti represents sexual energy and mental
activity. The women is considered to have more spiritual
energy than the male. A man can achieve transcendental
realization of the Absolute through the rituals of controlled
sexual intercourse, called various by,"maihuma, karezza,
kundalini", depending on the sects origin. The theory was
that a man must store up his seminal fluid rather than
ejaculate. He is supposed to be able to absorb through his
penis, the vaginal fluids of the woman as she orgasms. These
fluids then are stored in the man's spinal column and
eventually mount to his head at which time he will then
experience the transcendental realization of the Absolute. As
symbols, Shakti is represented as a serpent lying coiled in
the groin area. She must be awakened and mount up the male's
spinal column to flower forth as the Lotus from his head.
Pretty symbolism, but physiologically I don't think anyone
has ever found semen running up a spinal column, at least not
on the inside.
I saw a nice shot of cum running up the outside of a
spinal column in a movie clip Bill Margold showed at one of
the lectures he was giving to a college class on Human
Sexuality at which I had also lectured. He was fucking a
girl, doggy style, and pulled his nice sized cock out and
shot his load all over her back. He then bent over and licked
it off her. The guys in the class groaned, They considered it
gross. Those same guys would expect a girl to suck their
cocks and swallow their cum, but wouldn't touch the stuff
themselves.
Tantrism is a cult of Hinduism and Buddhism; but cult
has taken on a modern negative connotation because of
fundamentalist christians. Anyone who doesn't like a religion
calls it a cult; but cult comes from the Latin, cultus,
meaning to worship by bestowing time and effort into the
practice. Cultivation of the land was originally a religious
practice in which the farmer bestowed time and labor while
the priestess bestowed her blessings on the land. As
religions broke into different factions, a cult became an
independent religious order, with different rituals, which
remained a part of a larger religion. Thus the Greek "Cult of
Isis" had the worship of the female deity, Isis, while the
Greek "Cult of Apis" worshiped the male deity, Apis, but they
were both part of the same religion. Their ceremonies and
rituals were different but they worked in harmony with each
other.
Sect is from the Latin, Secta, meaning to follow, as
compared to cult, which was to worship. The first christians
were a sect - followers of Jesus, but the Romans also called
christians a Jewish cult. The cults of the Jews were the
Sadducees (followers of the High Priest, Zaddoc), Pharisees,
Essens, Zealots and Christians. They all claimed to worship
the same god, but none could agree as to what their god's
attributes were. The split between the Jewish religion and
christianity began in 133 C.E. and by the 7th century,
christianity had become a separate religion and the remaining
Jewish cults had disappeared. They were replaced by Judaism.
Even the occult forms of Judaism can not trace their writings
back earlier than 1000 A.D. This makes Judaism a very new
religion. Christianity having became the dominant religion,
lost its "cult" status and became "The Church". The cults of
christianity came into existence at its very foundation. The
Gnostics, Koptics, Agape and Manichaeans were but a few that
rose before the split between Rome and the Eastern Churches.
Today the Greek, Armenian, Russian and Roman Catholic
Churches all lay claim to the same divine authority - they
are the original "Christian Cults" and sects.. These were
followed by the christian churches of the reformation which
are technically and realistically are Cults of Christianity
which in turn is a cult of the ancient Jewish religion.
The religion of The Goddess was around well over 5000
years before the Christian era. Our written records dating to
3200 B.C.E. present the same concepts and doctrines we
espouse today.
Unfortunately history does not seem to be a required
subject for Los Angeles police officers or City attorneys,
and the federal judge who heard our case rejected everything,
finding that if there was sex involved it could not be
religion.
My religion believes that God and Goddess are separate
beings, male and female, who are not just spirits but actual
anthropomorphic beings. The Egyptians went to great length to
state that their God and Goddess "live" with bodies and we
make no pretense at being monotheistic. We are patently
polytheistic. Nevertheless there is One God whom we worship
and One Goddess whom we emulate, but there are many Gods and
Goddesses. We believe that the spirit of an individual exists
eternally, but that it is unique to the individual. The
spirit does not reincarnate, nor live in one body after
another as the Eastern religions teach. In death, the spirit
is separate from the body until the resurrection at which
time the spirit and body reunite to form an immortal being.
The earliest documented rituals of ancient goddess
religions was the Hieros Gamos or Sacred Marriage Ritual. In
this ritual the high priestess of the religion, acting as
avatar of the Goddess had sex, vaginal intercourse, with the
king or ruler of the country. This signified his acceptance
by the Goddess as the caretaker, or shepherd of her people
and was done in front of the entire populace amid great
cheers when the King had his orgasm. If the King was unable
to perform the ritual, he was replaced. (And some guys now-a-days complain about pressure to perform, what if your life
work depended on it.)
The Hieros Gamos is depicted in ancient clay tablets
from Sumer. From the projection sticking out from the surface
of the tablet it is quite obvious that the king had no
problem getting it up.
There are remnants of this Sacred Marriage ritual in the
Bible, I Kings which relates when, "King David was old and
stricken in years, they covered him with clothes, but he got
no heat. Wherefore his servants said unto him. Let there be
sought for my Lord, the King, a young virgin and let her
stand before the King and let her cherish him and let her lie
in thy bosom that my lord, the King may get heat." I would
say more accurately not to get heat, but to get "in heat".
Certainly her standing before the King would not benefit an
exchange of body heat as fundamentalist Christians claim was
the purpose of this girl going to bed with David. If it were
just body heat that concerned them, they could have had a big
fat woman to hold King David in her arms. But no, "They
sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of
Israel". So they finally found the damsel, Abishag, and
brought her to King David and she ministered unto him.
Abishag's ministry would have been more in line with mine, as
a priestess, I have sexual rituals and minister to the
members in the Goddess religion. But unfortunately, the
scripture say "he knew her not", which in biblical terms,
meant he didn't have sex with her. In other words, King David
couldn't get it up or get off - he couldn't perform the
ritual any longer. But even though David was 70 years old, it
wasn't until David's erection failed that his son, Adonigah,
aware that his father was impotent, and being a virile young
man himself, claimed the kingship for himself.
Today if a politician has sex with a young woman to
prove his virility he gets kicked out of office. I personally
think it would be more revealing of a politician's leadership
to see how he fucks a woman than having to wait to see how he
fucks his people.
The sexual rituals of The Goddess as practices of the
Egyptian priestesses of Isis, Hathor, Sati, and Sekhmet were
also contained in the sister religions of Astarte in Byblos
(Astarte was also known as, Astrorche, the "Ashtoreth" of the
Bible), Ishtar in Babylon, Aphrodite in Cyprus and Greece and
Venus in Rome. These are all Sects of the same religion with
different local names for The Goddess who was represented by
"the Star". The Egyptian religions which had male priests at
their heads found few followers outside of Egypt. The two
notable exceptions were the followers of Thoth (Hermes of the
Greek) and the introduction of the (Greek) cult of Isis into
Rome under the sponsorship of Cicero. It took many years to
get approval for the cult of Isis to enter Rome and this was
only accomplished by giving the supremacy of the priesthood
to men. The priests were a compromise by the Roman Senate
which was divided between honoring Cleopatra as The High
Priestess of the religion and insulting her by putting men in
her position of authority. Both religions of Isis and Hermes
had sex as an integral part of their rituals and had a great
influence on the Jewish cult of christianity which was soon
to come into being.
The religion of The Most High Goddess has rituals
involving sexual intercourse in which the priestess
encourages a man not to hold back. In the Ritual of Negation
the man symbolically gives up his very essence, which was
represented by this semen in order to have his sins wiped
out. It would be contradictory to the doctrines and
principles of the religion for a man to hold back and stop
himself from cumming. Anyone who would practice tantric
techniques in our religious rituals would not be acceptable
to The Goddess or the priestess. He would be going against
the purpose of the ritual. You cannot say you want to give up
your sins and have them wiped out and then hold on to them as
long as you can. The ritual of negation is something a man
continues with all of his life. It is a way of purification,
a path back to God. There is no reason why a person would
want to hold back and if he did he would not be acceptable to
The Goddess or the priestess.
In Tantrism the male trains himself not to cum, but to
fuck for a long period without orgasm or ejaculation. In
doing this he endeavors to become like Shiva in perpetual
union with Shakti.
Personally, I have been with men who practice Tantric
techniques and found them very unexciting. Not only
unexciting, but actually, they made sex unpleasant. It must
be remembered that in tantric the man is supposed to get his
power from the woman when she is having orgasms.
Unfortunately, all of the men I have met who practice the
tantric technique were only concerned with keeping an
erection and forgot my orgasm. In order to maintain their
erections they had to change rhythm frequently to keep from
cumming. If I am just about to have an orgasm and a man
changes rhythm that ruins it for me. It destroys my rhythm
and ends the orgasm before it begins. So he builds up again
to a nice regular pace. His cock gets harder and harder and I
start feeling the orgasm building, then oops, he's got to
change rhythm again to keep from coming, or he starts talking
about irrelevant topics and his cock gets semi-hard. Another
orgasm shot to tantric hell. After doing this two or three
times, I feel that I'd rather not bother trying to have an
orgasm, so that ends that fuck. Having an orgasm takes
concentration and effort. I don't care to be frustrated. As
I've stated many times a man is at his best when he's moving,
naturally to orgasm, building up and up. I can feel him grow
inside me and finally explode in orgasm, which is very
exciting to me and usually I come at the same time.
All this, of course is intended as a general idea of
some of the basic differences in the theology and the sexual
symbolism and practices between Tantrism and the religion of
the Most High Goddess. There is much more to the doctrines of
both religions but this makes the marked distinctions between
the two. It is encouraging that there are people out there
who do have sex as part of their religion, even if there are
very, very different beliefs behind their rituals.
Sexual practices were common in early christianity which
believed in the Egyptian religious doctrine of apotheosis,
which became known as antinomianism. That is, that men and
women had the potential of becoming gods and goddesses.
Paramount among the christian sects which held sex to be a
sacrament were the Agape. Today fundamentalist christians
display and wear the Agape symbol of the fish, claiming they
hold the same "pure love" which this ancient cult possessed.
However it is now known that "the sacrifice of the mass" was
the Agape term for sexual intercourse; "entering the privy
chapel" was to enter the woman's vagina; "to bestow at least
one hour in adoration at the alter is sexual play; extolling
God in strophe and antistrophe and performing the sacrifice
is to achieve orgasm"; while "`the elixir being prepared
solemnly and in silence do thou consume it utterly," meant to
swallow the mingled male sperm and female vaginal juices,
which the Agape considered "the most powerful, the most
radiant thing that existed in the whole universe." Too bad
those modern professors of Agape don't follow their ancient
traditions. But all of these sexual ideas, along with
antinomian were denounced as heresy by the Catholic Church
which began killing the priestess as early as the second
century of the current era. It was not until 1310, however,
that the leader of the last popular movement was put to the
stake and burned along with her book, "The Mirror of Free
Souls." But this did not end the agape practices in
christianity. The 19th century found a new breath of sexual
expression. A group of nuns of the Dominican convent of St.
Catherine de Prato, were expunged from the order because they
taught that "love of God and one's neighbor" was fulfilled
when the man united with the woman in sex or when women has
sex together or alone.
About this time American religions were being developed
by men who espoused sex without cumming. Why men wouldn't
want to cum when they fuck is hard (no pun) for me to
understand, since I've participated in the joy of thousands
of men exploding in orgasm inside me and they all enjoyed
themselves thoroughly. To not let your body have its ultimate
pleasure after its built up to it seems somewhat masochistic.
The 1800's found this country in the midst of a great
burst of religious fervor. To quote the Mormon prophet,
Joseph Smith, "There was in the place where we lived an
unusual excitement on the subject of religion. It commenced
with the Methodist, but soon became general among all the
sects in that region of country, indeed, the whole district
of country seemed affected by it, and great multitudes united
themselves to the different religious parties, which created
no small stir and division amongst the people.... For notwithstanding the great love which the converts in these
different faiths expressed at the time of their conversion
and the great zeal manifested by the respective clergy, who
were active in getting up and promoting this extraordinary
scene of religious feeling, in order to have everybody
converted, as they were pleased to call it, let them join
what sect they please, yet when the converts began to file
off, some to one party and some to another, it was seen that
the seemingly good feeling of both the priests and the
converts were more pretended then real for a scene of great
confusion land bad feeling ensued -- priest contending
against priest and convert against convert, so that all their
good feeling one for another, if they ever had any, were
entirely lost in a strife of words and a contest about
opinions."
Religious zeal was sweeping the country and experiments
with communal living were being tried. Two similar but yet
very distinct groups were established in the eastern states
that had sex as a prominent part in their religions.
It is probably fair to say that most practices of
holding back, "coitus reservatus" or plainly put, fucking
without cumming originated with tantric practices. But the
Eastern religions did not hold exclusive claim to the
technique. In the United States, there were religious groups
as early as the eighteen hundreds that used similar
practices.
These religious groups apparently had no direct contact
with the Hindu or Buddhist Tantrism, but rather developed
their sexual techniques independently. Sort of like
reinventing the wheel - a wheel which was ancient at the dawn
of civilization.
The Oneida Company of New York, which is renowned for
its silver work was originally run by a religious group that
practiced coitus reservatus. John Humphrey Noyes was born in
Vermont in 1811. He was educated at Dartmouth and Yale
Divinity School. He originally practiced as a Congregational
minister but was asked to leave because he preached what
became known as his "perfectionist" doctrine, which he called
Swedenborgism Americanized. To quote from one of his
pamphlets. "The new commandment is that we love one another,
and that not in pairs but en masse. We are required to love
one another fervently; the fashion of the world forbids a man
and a woman who are otherwise appropriated to love one
another fervently but if they obey Christ, they must do
this... love is not a sin. Susceptibility to love is not
burnt out by one honeymoon, or satisfied with one love. On
the contrary, the more you do the more you can. It is the law
of nature." Not quite the same interpretation that most
fundamentalist Christians make of Christ's new commandment to
love one another (John 15, 12 & 17), but it was the same as
the Dominican heretics and the Brothers and Sisters of the
Free Spirit 500 years earlier.
After losing his Congregational ministry John Noyes
founded a Perfectionist community in 1836 in Vermont. John
had a wife he loved dearly and is said to have rediscovered
Tantric sex techniques of fucking without cumming in order to
protect his wife from "the horrors and the fear of
involuntary propagation " (getting pregnant) after she had
had severe difficulties in four pregnancies. However,
Catholics who don't believe in any form of birth control
(except the rhythm system) never came up with the idea of
Tantric sex. And even though many of the heretic religions
which were persecuted by the church did practice Tantric sex,
the sexual practice does not appear to have been condemned by
the church as was say, withdrawal. So there must have been
some other raison d'etre. Perhaps John got a lot of pleasure
from giving pleasure to his wife, and/or he was a masochist
at heart. Instead of practicing fucking without cumming, he
could have instigated fucking and withdrawing before
ejaculation as most XX rated film studs do. Although that may
have been looked upon as the same as the "sin of Onan" which
is spilling the seed on the ground (masturbation). However,
women who are partners in both withdrawal and the Tantric
methods are eventually called "mothers" as the methods are
not very reliable as birth control because of the cum that
leaks out during intercourse.
I personally love to see that cum glistening at the top
of the cock. If I'm sucking a cock and I see the cum begin to
ooze out, I know I'd better climb on because the real
excitement is about to happen. I think a man is at his best
when he is just about to cum and cumming. His cock grows to
maximum size, his rhythm is fast and regular. He's reaching
inside of me as deep as he can get. The intensity is
overpowering. If a man pulls out right before he cums that
ruins it. I lose the intensity and feeling of excitement
which brings me to orgasm and sexual and spiritual
fulfillment. I'll grab his ass and shove the cock back in.,
as I say, "In, In, In".
The Noyes Perfectionist Community lasted in Vermont for
ten years. After that public condemnation of their communal
sex practices caused them to move to Oneida, New York. There
they established a very prosperous manufacturing community.
The religious movement did not survive long after Noyes, but
the silver smithing business exists to this day.
Noyes taught the Perfectionist that after their
conversion they could become completely free from the
possibility of sin. They believed in holding not only
property in common but also children. He abolished marriage,
but unfortunately did not practice free, open love with
everyone, but rather he paired people with the intention of
producing the best children. Children were reared by the
community and were not considered to belong to the mother or
father.
Though people might have been attracted to the
Perfectionist religion because of its original open attitudes
towards love and sex, the group became so dictatorially
communistic that, I think, that lead to its demise. The
religious aspects pretty much died out by the late 1800's.
Another sect which was established about he same time as
the Perfectionist was the Brotherhood of the New Life. It was
started in Virginia by Tom Harris, but later moved to New
York. Harris thought that God had both a male and female
aspect, similar to Hindu teachings. he believed people had a
duty to love each other, not just spiritual brotherly love,
but also physically with many partners. This was also a
communal group. One of its followers, Lawrence Oliphant, a
former member of the British Parliament, split off from
Harris to form his own colony in Palestine. He called this
cult, Sympneumatta, and taught that through maintaining a
state of sexual excitement one could become spiritually
alive. In order to achieve this state, couples practiced
lying together in a state of arousal -- in other words, the
man has a hard on, but can't fuck. This, to me, would seem to
be very frustrating to all parties.
From my own personal observations, I have found that
when men hold back when they are fucking, eventually their
cocks go down. When I've been fucking a guy and he stops or
pulls out to keep from cumming, after doing this for only one
or two times, he develops a problem -- actually two possible
problems. One, his body gives up and his cock goes soft and
won't get hard again, so he isn't able to cum. His body goes
on strike, you might say. It says "if you're not going to let
me take my pleasure, I'm going to stop putting in all that
effort." Or the other problem is the cock stays hard and
stays hard. It can't ejaculate, it can't release the sexual
tension that he's built up. It's as if the body says "you've
brought me up to the point of cumming and stopped me so
often, that I've been conditioned to not go all the way
anymore." That is the true Tantric state, but the man usually
cannot keep up a hard fast rhythm to give the woman pleasure.
Both conditions are miserable to be in. And they certainly
don't make for great sex partners.
I believe a man should go with his natural feeling and
let his body take its pleasure when the urge comes. It's
better to cum quickly than get stuck and not cum at all. I
think men should practice cumming naturally, quickly and
practice it frequently. When some guys want to drag out
intercourse to the point of boredom they act as if its the
only chance they'll have to fuck in their life, and with that
technique, it probably is. At least, its the last chance
they'll have to fuck me. I don't think having frequent sex
will lessen the desire or performance. If anything, it
heightens the desire and ability. As with most physical
activity, practice makes perfect.
It has been written of Mrs. Oliphant, the wife of the
founder of Sympneumatta, that she would get into bed with
sometimes dirty men "the contact of her body brought about as
she supposed, the coming of the spiritual counterpart. It was
a great trial to her to do this and she felt she was
performing a most holy mission". Mrs. Oliphant would probably
never have made a good priestess of The Most High Goddess.
Priestesses in our religion must enjoy sex. I thoroughly
enjoy my calling as the High Priestess. We do not look at our
sexual rituals as a "trial", or something to endure because
God requires it. We emulate the Goddess and take joy in doing
this. I try to communicate this joy to the people I take
through the rituals.
The Oliphant's religion fell apart after the death of
the founders.
Most people are familiar with another religious group
which started back in the 1800's which is very prominent now,
the Mormons. They are reported to have had very sexual
practices secretly among the inner circle of the church. That
is emphatically denied today by Mormon leaders but Mormon
leaders also denied the same charges in coached terms when
they first came to light in the 1830's. The denials were
never, "Mormons don't have sex with any woman other than our
wife", but rather "we don't engage in any illicite sexual
practices" and "We do not engage in sexual practices as
described by our enemy". Of course not. Religious sex would
not be illicite, and the enemies of Mormonism would not know
all the details of their sexual practices so the Mormons
could make that general denial. It was an outright lie, just
as was the denial that Mormons practiced polygamy. That
denial, also made in the 1830s was in very emphatic terms.
Twenty years later, however, Brigham Young found himself
having to deny that the church had ever denied practicing
polygamy, as polygamy was then a part of the "New and
Everlasting Covenant of Celestial Marriage". Sex with several
women became the "order" of Mormonism as long as they were
married to the man; and there appears to have been no limit
put on the number of wives. This practice was common among
patriarchs of the Bible - Abraham, Israel, King David and
Solomon, to name a few. Unfortunately Mormon women were never
given the same freedom of having sex with other men as were
the priestess wives of David and Solomon, and other
patriarchs.
This right of the priestess, to have sex with any man
she desired, appears to have been originally taught by Joseph
Smith, but was rejected by his wife, Emma, who also rejected
polygamy. William Law, was another high Mormon official who
rejected Mormon sexual practices. In 1841, William Law was
appointed counselor to Joseph Smith, the Prophet and
president of the Mormon Church. That made him the number two
man in the Church hierarchy - a situation which the Mormons
corrected after the long debate over Brigham Young becoming
the leader after Joseph Smith was murdered. Law became
disenchanted when Joseph Smith gave Law's wife (who was
considered to be the most beautiful woman in the community)
to one man after another in their sacred sexual rituals. When
William Law threatened to publish the sexual practices of the
Mormons, his printing press was destroyed by Joseph Smith and
his followers. He left the church but his wife stayed,
obviously enjoying the opportunity to have one man after
another.
The Mormons also tried communal living for a while in
what they called the "United Order", which was abandoned
about the same time as polygamy. One of my favorite
scriptures come from the Book of Mormon, "Men are, that they
might have joy". Unfortunately, Mormons have removed joy from
their religion.
What happened from the 1800's to our present days?
Tantrism has become fairly well known as a sexual religion
and many sex therapists teach a form of the Tantric technique
to develop men sexually. They teach the man to try to hold
back. It has been my experience that a man can learn to
satisfy a woman, not because he is holding back, but because
he practices cumming. One of the problems with holding back
is that when the man finally does cum, his orgasm is not very
intense, and his cum just oozes out. I have had men who have
cum as soon as they have slid their hard cock inside my
eager, hot, wet pussy, and they have had such an intensity in
their orgasms that I have exploded in orgasm with them. Good
sexual technique depends on the individual. But one learns to
have good technique by cuming again and again, not by never
cuming.
Sexual religious practices have not been accepted at
all. Perhaps people were more tolerant about sex in religion
back then because they were closer to our founding as a
nation and realized the principles the Constitution was set
up to protect. But the one thing which predominated all of
the religious sexual movements was to communicate love
between the followers. Unfortunately, that love does not
include true love through sexual expression.
But not only is sexual expression forbidden by christian
dominated governments, but from the beginning christians have
sought to eliminate the expression of sex in dance,
especially profane and religious nude dancing.
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